How great am I?

“We would love to hear from you!”

                           “Please fill out this brief survey to tell us how we did!”

           “Tell us how we can serve you better.”


It seems as if everyone wants to know how great they did before they actually do anything! Now, to be fair not every place I visit on the web bombards me with a request for accolades. Some wait until I’m finished browsing their website. And some let me go on my merry way without accosting me. And I do mean accosted.

When I visit a store online it is usually with a purpose. Sometimes I’m looking for something in particular and sometimes I’m just browsing. But leave me the hell alone! I even hate going into actual stores only to have the sales staff continually assail me with questions and offers of their assistance. Don’t be too far away when I want something but don’t pester me. I know everybody wants to make a buck but that will chase me out of the store faster than a bad smell. I mean that.

Have you ever gone to a good restaurant and had your wait staff continually question the quality of your meal? Sometimes they are fawning over your every mouthful. They will interrupt your conversation just so you can tell them how good they are or how wonderful the meal is. A really good way to lose your tip! A good waiter will anticipate the diners’ needs without interrupting. A good waiter has eyes in the back of their head and can see when their diners require something. I have been served by really good waiters. I have also been served by really bad ones. The former is a pleasure, the later not so much.   The quality of the service can enhance or detract from the experience.

I guess as I get older I am becoming more aware of service, good service. I appreciate what it takes to provide that service and I look for it. Don’t get me wrong I’m not holding people up to a standard from long ago but I am holding them to a standard. Good service, like good manners, should not be a thing of the past.


24 thoughts on “How great am I?

  1. scifihammy

    You make some good points. 🙂
    There’s one store here where you are pounced on by sales staff the moment your foot crosses the threshold. Needless to say, they chase shoppers away!
    And I agree about service at a restaurant. I appreciate the waitress who stops by to tell me that my meal is on the way, when it is taking a while and they are busy. I tip good service very well. 🙂

    Liked by 2 people

  2. Murphy's Law

    You took the words right out of my mouth! Good service isn’t being smothered or ignored by the staff. And like everyone else, I’ve experienced both. What happened to well-trained staff who know when to step in and when to stay put?

    And what’s up with the trucks on the road with a huge sign on the back, HOW’S MY DRIVING? CALL 111-555-1234. WTH?!!

    But I have to say Pam, your gorgeous cat looks like she/he isn’t too thrilled with your service in that photo!! Lol.
    🔹 Ginger 🔹

    Liked by 2 people

  3. dweezer19

    What really gets on my bad side is having several people, or one over eager person, pounce on you initially; yet, when you actually need something, there is no one to be found. When you persist, you then are treated as a nuisance. My husband always says it has econe an I,I Me, Me place and I am sadly beginning to agree. 😕

    Liked by 1 person

  4. John W. Howell

    I spent a number of years as a waiter and cannot believe what passes as service today. The question, “How is everything?” is usually a result of inattentiveness and an insecure feeling that the customer survey is going to come back as a negative. I would love to answer, “If you had paid attention you would have noticed my food was cold the minute you picked it up ten minutes after the chef told you it was ready, idiot.”

    Liked by 2 people

  5. Hélène (Willow Poetry)

    People who thoroughly love their job will give you the best service. Unfortunately, most people work for a living and not for pleasure and don’t care about the customer but more about getting home at the end of the day and their pay cheques.

    Liked by 1 person


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.