Tall and dark,
And oh, so kind.
That my friends,
Is quite a find.
Six foot two,
With eyes of blue.
That I think,
Is what will do.
But oh, so much,
Is needed here.
A gentle nature,
Let’s be clear.
I’d like a man,
Who makes me smile.
A man of conscious,
And little guile.
A thinking man,
A tender soul,
Who cares for others,
That’s my goal
He’ll hold me close,
When I must cry.
He’ll never judge ,
Or ask me why.
Tenacious yes,
And loyal too.
Now, I think,
I like that view!
A messy, silly,
Man of wit.
That I think,
A perfect fit.
Safely kept,
Within my mind.
The perfect man,
Is so defined.
Many, many years ago a group of young women, on a university campus, sat down on a Friday night over several bottles of cheap wine and decided to design the perfect man. A consensus was quickly reached, the man would need to be tall, dark and handsome. And then the evening segued into something I will not repeat. Even decades later. I took that description and embellished it somewhat. Over the years it evolved as did I.
Haha, I can imagine that conversation! Careful though, this poem feels so much like a magical invocation that you might receive an unexpected visit!
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That is both titillating and terrifying!
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yes, I have certainly evolved in this area over the years and with past experience !
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Amazing how we change over time.
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Great fun… I managed two-thirds of that wish – the tall part belongs to somebody else. And he cooks and makes me laugh. What’s not to love! (No black eyes as yet…) x
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Sounds like an exceptional package!
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Well, I’m tall…
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STOP IT! You made me spit my Cheerios out laughing. 🤗
Ginger
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I’m sorry, Ginger, but…
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Anybody that can make me laugh is a real deal!
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🙂
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Every girls dream man, I think. I would have loved to be in that group!
On the opposite side, I wonder what a group of young men would come up with for their collective idea of the perfect woman.
This is a fun poem that speaks for so many.
Ginger
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As I have gotten older I have come to realize that perfection is a frame of mind not something tangible. However… I still like 6 foot two and eyes of blue.
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Now your making me fantasizing a hunk of my fantasy! Shhhh… don’t tell my husband. His quite the jealous type
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As long as you don’t talk in your sleep you are probably OK.
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😂😂😂
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Um, I don’t think I’ll go there Pam…but…I am sorta tall (ish), sorta dark (grey), and the handsome bit is…well…if you like those little goatee thingy’s from the bottom lip, a rakish type model…circa 1960’ish 😂🤣
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You are perfect in my mind Mark! You love chocolate…
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Haha, anybody who loves chocolate can’t be half bad eh 🤣
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I think perfection is out there, Pamela. I enjoyed where you set the bar. I’ll have a gin, please. On the rocks with an olive. Thanks.
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I have never seen it. But I also think that perfection is overrated. Someone can be perfect just as they are. And cheers!
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😊
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I can imagine the time you all met with the wine. I enjoyed this poem, Pam! I’ve had lots of practice in finding the opposing traits!
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I’m glad you enjoyed it Karla. I have never met anyone that met all these criteria. I think perfection is a myth.
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You’ve nailed it, Pam. I’ll take imperfection with a HUGE dose of kindness and loyalty please! 🙃💛
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Ah yes…. that outside packaging is great for drawing us in, but if he doesn’t have a part of all the other criteria in this marvellous poem, he’s outta here. Must make me laugh and not laugh at me. Perfec is as perfect does 😉 Fun stuff!
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You are so right. Packaging is fine but it’s what’s inside that matters.
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Absolutely. And it’s funny how much better-looking people become to our eyes when we fall in love with the rest…
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Sounds like a fun time. Good thing you weren’t hanging out with Sandra Bullock and Nicole Kidman. 😉
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If there’s lime and coconut involved I’m in!
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‘Practically’ speaking, of course.
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I love that movie! Especially that scene…
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It was surprisingly crazy but fun.
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When the wine starts paying off, so too does the blueprint.
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Ha ha ha! Too true!
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Good description that came out of the session with university mates!
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Some of those sessions were epic!
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I am sure it was as I remember my university days and the discussions I had with them on guys 🤣
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