Celebrate who you are! You are worth it!
Celebrate who you are! You are worth it!
There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance.
A friend said recently: “I always feel better when someone smiles at me. It boosts my mood.” It was in response to one of my quips and she is absolutely right: a simple smile can make a difference.
An act of kindness can have a major impact on the recipient. And here is the amazing part: It is free (usually), hygienic, ethical, moral and (usually) legal. Now is that not a subversive idea?
We spend our lives in pursuit of . . . stuff. Money, power, recognition, acceptance are lures society spends its time chasing. Is that a good thing? Actually, it can be good and it could be bad. It all depends on the outcome. But kindness is something each and every one of us has the ability to pass on. It could be as simple as a smile or a handshake or as complicated as necessary to achieve a targeted goal. Kindness does not have a template that one has to follow. It is just being nice to a stranger or a friend. It’s giving up your seat on the bus to someone who looks exhausted. It’s crossing your eyes and smiling at child who is just curious about the world. Kindness is the woman in her 80s who takes dog cookies when she goes out for her daily walk. She always asked the owner if she could give them a cookie and the dogs look for her. Everyone is touched. Kindness.
I wonder if it is a word and an act has gone out of fashion. That would be such a shame. We now have automatic doors so no one has to open a door for another. We have automated cashiers so we don’t even have to talk when we buy groceries. That is so sad. If we lose the desire to perform kindness then we will have lost far too much, perhaps more than we can afford.
A great kindness was done to me recently. I was having my kitchen counter replaced and so I was without a stove top. Hence no ability to make a cup a tea. (No, I will not boil water for tea in a microwave!) I love my tea in the morning. A friend knew this. She called and told me she was coming over. She arrived with a thermos full of tea. It was my tea, steeped appropriately. I would have survived a day without a cup of tea but she knew I would miss it. This simple act of kindness touched me deeply.
A simple smile as you walk down the street can lift the spirits of another. But we have to start. Each and every one of us has the ability to smile but its only true value is when we smile at another. I wonder what the world would be like if more people practice kindness?
We need to be kind to each other.
Not everyone passes their personality test.
Who would I be
If I couldn’t be me?
If the she
That’s not me
Would perhaps be a he
Then the me
That you’d see
Wouldn’t be me.
I think that the me
this moment you see
is probably a she
cuz a he
That is me
Would probably flee
Now please disagree
if too silly you see.
So now I’m a me
That maybe I’d be
If I’m not the me
that I used to be
when looking you’d see
Where would I be
If I couldn’t be me?
Perhaps by the sea.
I’d want to be free
And yes by the sea
Beneath a wide tree
with a glass of ice tea
I think that the me
That still is a she
Has feelings of glee
Don’t you agree?
What would you do
If you couldn’t be you?
Somedays you need to let your crazy out!
Labels are hard to live up to.
I must be. I’ll bet you are too. We must be if we think this B-Sht Crazy World is going to make it. I mean think about it. Our planet is a mess, we only have one world, there is no back up. And yet as hard as some people work to try to fix all the problems, there are too many others who are apathetic. Even worse are those who fight against the solutions for personal gain.
People around the world are starving but we can feed them, we can heal sicknesses, provide care, promote education. But because of greed and apathy people don’t get the support they need. This planet has more than enough resources to support everyone if we share but we don’t know how to get along. We really don’t.
Food. It all comes down to food. One of the leading causes of death worldwide, is food related. In some countries: obesity, diabetes, heart disease, cancer. In other countries: starvation. How can we let this happen?
We have pristine beaches we purposely pollute because we are lazy? We have places to put garbage so why don’t we? We expect others to clean up after us. We want the problems to be fixed but we don’t want to be responsible.
Too many dreams left unfilled can lead to apathy. Which explains so much. We have improved our lives a great deal but we have lost a lot along the way. We have lost understanding, compassion and acceptance. We find ways to promote hatred and that becomes all consuming.
Perhaps the most controversial problem facing our world is climate change. And we cannot agree on that! Open your eyes and look out the window. Are your winters the same as they were fifty years ago? Your summers twenty years ago? Some of the most violent weather recorded has happened in the last decade. Cause for concern? I think so. And so do scientists worldwide. I think I’ll take my cue from them. Naming a problem is the first step towards solving it and that took far too long! Now we need to fix it. Or at least decrease its impact.
But we run into the universal problem: we can’t get along. We are so blinded by our petty hatreds, greed and apathy we are unable to see the real picture. Our world is dying. It probably won’t happen in our lifetime or our children’s children lifetime. But is that the legacy we want to leave our distant future: we didn’t care enough?
If it ain’t broke . . . first hire a consulting firm to determine if it truly is not broken. Then an environmental agency will need to do a study to assess the ramifications to the environs should changes be required. Then a societal report will need to be filed in triplicate with various agencies who need to justify their budgets. And finally if it ain’t broke . . . break it.
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